I wanna be alone with you if that makes sense

#I wanna be alone with you if that makes sense free#

But you know whatвЂ™s even scarier? Regret.

Making a big life change is pretty scary.

The second step is leaving the life you donвЂ™t want. Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want. Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path. You have to be a little lost first to find what youвЂ™re looking for. (Read Quiet: The Power of Introverts.) 3. So youвЂ™d better learn the sound of it, otherwise youвЂ™ll never understand what itвЂ™s telling you. And the truth is, throughout your life there will be times when the world gets real quiet and the only thing left is the beat of your own heart. We need solitude, because when weвЂ™re alone weвЂ™re detached from obligations, we donвЂ™t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts and feel what our intuition is telling us. In other words, the moments you feel lonely are the moments you may most need to be by yourself.

#I wanna be alone with you if that makes sense free#

Sometimes you need to be alone, not to be lonely, but to enjoy a little free time just being yourself and finding your way. Sometimes when youвЂ™re lonely, you need to be alone. Perhaps you canвЂ™t immediately talk to them, but they are out there, and thatвЂ™s all you need to know right now. ThereвЂ™s always someone who can relate to you. When you hear yourself say, вЂњI am all alone,вЂќ itвЂ™s just your worried mind trying to sell you a lie. So no matter how embarrassed or pathetic you feel about your own situation, know that there are others out there experiencing the same emotions. So many of us are fighting the same exact battle alongside you. Here are some things to keep in mind when you feel lost and alone: It gives us an opportunity to discover who we really are and what life is all about. ItвЂ™s good for us to spend time exploring unknowns, alone. The more IвЂ™ve experienced and explored my own feelings of uncertainty and loneliness, the more IвЂ™ve realized how necessary these feelings are. Why? Was the planet put here just to nourish our loneliness? Why do people have to feel this way? WhatвЂ™s the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them craving connection, and looking for specific experiences and people to satisfy them, yet inadvertently isolating themselves in the process. However, the rest of EllaвЂ™s email further described her ongoing struggle with feeling вЂњlost and aloneвЂќ in life. It made me smile because I love when life delivers seemingly coincidental, positive messages like that, right when we need them most. ThatвЂ™s the opening paragraph of an email I received today from a reader named Ella. A few seconds later, at the exact moment the chorus began, I passed a huge billboard sign with big black letters that read, вЂYOU ARE NOT ALONE!вЂ™вЂќ I turned on the radio and the Michael Jackson song вЂYou Are Not AloneвЂ™ was playing. вЂњThis morning I felt lost and alone as I was driving home after a brutal breakup with my boyfriend. Sometimes it felt good, but it never felt right.вЂќ

For that reason, an electric shock is a welcome distraction from oneвЂ™s negative self-talk.вЂњBeing alone never felt right. ItвЂ™s also possible that, while alone with nothing to do, men are more likely to create an unpleasant environment for themselves by ruminating on their flaws or mistakes. (One guy even shocked himself 190 times, but was considered an outlier and therefore excluded from the data.)ДЄs the research states, itвЂ™s possible that men are simply more likely to seek sensation than women. Sixty-seven percent of men decided to go for the shock, despite saying previously they would pay to avoid it. Those who stated they would pay not to be shocked again were then told simply to вЂњentertain themselves with their thoughts,вЂќ but were also given the option of electrocuting themselves whenever they wanted. They were then asked how much they would pay to not be shocked again if they were hypothetically given $5. In one of these studies, participants were asked to rate the pleasantness of several positive and negative stimuli, an electric shock being an example of the latter. Featured in Science, researchers at the University of VirginiaвЂ™s Department of Psychology shared their findings after conducting 11 studies on how people respond to time spent alone with nothing to do. It turns out, the data the chart utilized was published in 2014, but its research might be more relevant than ever.